The Healthy Divorce
On average each couple will have between 4-6 sessions with a week to ten days between sessions.
Academic And Social Skills Insights #30
For children who are preschool age, meltdowns will generally occur around food, clothing, and toys.
Dear Dr. Yael
Using imagery with deep breathing usually makes the techniques more effective and generally helps people maintain their focus better.
Incentives Or Bribes (Part II)
Dear Rabbi Horowitz:
We would appreciate your thoughts regarding offering our children incentives, financial or otherwise, for doing well in school this year.
We don't want to bribe our kids but, on the other hand, incentives seem to work very well.
What do you think?
Yaakov and Susan
BRAVING: Learning to Truly Belong
In this book, Brown points out that those who feel like they truly belong have the courage to stand alone.
The Heart Wants…
We all have small parts of us that don’t showcase us in the best light. Bits and pieces that when highlighted detract from our positive qualities.
The Midlife Blah?
With the passing of time people begin to look back on previous years and feel dissatisfaction (even if this is completely subjective and someone on the outside would think that they were doing great).
Mending Fences
The difficulty lies in how teenagers perceive their surroundings. They often see the world as revolving around them and cannot understand why parents are always asking them to do things.
Part 15 – Signs of a Controlling Personality
Here are some of the ways to know whether you are in a controlling relationship:
Acting Respectfully Always Pays Off
Dear Dr. Yael:
Although I agree with your advice to A Passive Reader (Showing Respect Gets Results, 4-20) about how to deal with difficult people, I emphatically disagree with your decision to take the blame for the impatient frum guy who was honking his horn. If you saw him run someone over with his car, would you take the blame for that too? If you had gotten a ticket, would you have paid it? If the officer had arrested you, would you have gone to jail? I am not a rabbi, but I would be surprised if not informing means taking the blame as well.
Let Kids Be Kids
Dear Dr. Yael:
I now see why so many children are insecure.
I have been a day-care provider for many years. When parents initially consider day care they want a small group so their children will not be neglected. But problems arise when their children turn two, and nursery or playgroup becomes an option. All of a sudden a group of 20-25 children is not a problem because it is much cheaper. I refer to two-two and a half year olds, whose parents feel that they need to exclusively be with children their own age.
Dear Dr. Yael
When you tell a shadchan that you want a young man with a plan or an idea of how he will support his family, the conversation is over.
Dear Dr. Yael
While I can give you tips on how to do this, it appears that you already have created a good, loving, and fun life where you give to others and you have close relationships.
Travel Trouble
Politically correct wording and trending topics aside, every woman’s objective must always be to find her bashert so she can create an everlasting Jewish home in which she can raise her children.
Supercharge Me
We don’t date in rom-coms, we don’t date in romance novels, and we don’t date through insta-stories. We date in reality.
Daydreaming Daughters
Many women do not realize they have ADHD until they bring their child in for an evaluation.
Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities
More Commentary On Bais Yaakov’s High School Education
Dear Dr. Yael
Children learn more from what we do than from what we say.
Burnout: A Women’s Epidemic?
What happens if the stressor is not a lion? What happens if the stressor is a really rude boss?
Dear Dr. Yael
All who have gone through this know the look. My mom then told me to lie about the years of my marriage and say two years, so that maybe their faces would not give you that look of “Oy, so sad.”
Readers Respond to “The Tyranny of Beauty: A Plea to Mothers Of Girls In...
In our March 16 issue we featured The Tyranny of Beauty: A Plea to Mothers Of Girls In Shidduchim, in which the author described a “Meet and Greet” for young women in a certain age and mindset (looking for young men who are sitting and learning) and mothers of the young men they could potentially date. The article received a tremendous amount of comments on our website and via e-mail. Below are some of the responses.
Raising Readers
Whole books have been devoted to studying why boys lag behind girls in terms of their reading skills and here are some of the reasons that scientists and educators have compiled.
In-Law Complications
"I would really love my mother-in-law ...if she weren't my mother-in-law."